met reyna, a girl, latina, at start of grad school, 10 years older, married, two kids, 3 and 5, had breast cancer, missing left breast, had sex twice, was smarter than me, into heidegger and levinas, crush on husband, tom, went to six flags three times a week for a summer, didn't get my sense of humor, beautiful, referred to herself as an "angry white man," ferocious, liked spanish gentlemen wear, was masculine, died 8 years ago of the cancer, rip, miss her, bad to her at the end, still carry photo, liked dick. 2000.